There are times when I’m with someone and it takes all the power in me to not say exactly what I’m thinking. It’s good to be honest and give your opinion but it’s how you deliver that opinion that is my issue.
I can come off as rude and I don’t even realize it until after I’ve said it. As I get older I’m learning how to filter my thoughts and just think before I speak.
Most people don’t really want your raw honest opinion. They simply can’t handle that. They want your opinion but sugar coated. It’s a safer way to go when someone asks for your advice trust me.
Tell them the truth but don’t be so hard on them about it. Everything that you think in your head doesn’t need to come out.
I’m getting better at this and it does help with building relationships with people.
Are you someone that has to resist making that rude or bitchy comment? Let me know in the comments.