If I’ve learned anything about being in my relationship for almost 10 years it’s been that there will be times where we fight.
Fighting is something that you can’t avoid but it isn’t always a bad thing to do. I don’t want someone in my life that has the same opinions and just agrees with me on everything. There’s no fun in that and I wouldn’t be able to grow in that type of relationship.
Every time we fight I learn more about us as well as myself. I’ve learned that I’m not always right and there are things we as a couple have to work on.
The hard times make the good times better. When you can get through the struggles with someone it makes your relationship stronger.
The other thing I don’t do when we are fighting is vent about it to someone. I do vent to my best friend every now and then when it gets to be too much to take on my own but I never let family members, coworkers or friends I’m close with but not close enough to want them in my business know that we are fighting.
We fight behind closed doors and most of the time no one knows that we are in an argument. I don’t need other people’s opinions because that makes the fighting worse. We eventually figure it out and I don’t need other people thinking differently of us once we do kiss and make up.
We aren’t perfect and we deff aren’t trying to be. Every couple has issues and goes through things. It’s the ones that get through those issues together that last.
Do you fight with your significant other? Let me know in the comments.